Breaking Free - Empaths, Narcissists and the Human Condition
Starseeds, lightworkers, etc., are empathic beings who came here to help raise the energetic frequency of humanity. There are forces that do not want that to happen. In order to resist the empath's efforts, less evolved energy also incarnated. Although they don't know it, they help to keep humanity trapped in duality.
Resistance to raising energetic frequency takes many forms. On a very personal level, empaths are often subverted at the core by the lower-level incarnations, also known as narcissists. Resistance is also how we learn. As we shall see, the narcissist's resistance is exactly the force that trains the empaths how to do what they came here to do.
Natural Attraction of Opposites
The empath-narcissist relationship is all too common. We naturally attract each other. Narcissists need someone to understand them while empaths specialize at understanding the human condition through experience. The inevitable imbalance occurs because the empath becomes the narcissist's doormat and it seems like there's no escape, even when empaths know they're being used.
The wrong person can bring another person down, big-time, causing us to unconsciously sabotage ourselves until there's nothing left to sabotage. We are rendered completely at the mercy of someone who would throw us away for a cheap thrill without a second thought.
There exists a direct connection between who is in our lives and our ability to thrive in life. Narcissists will think nothing of holding someone down for an entire lifetime. Don't miss out on your life because you feel bad about leaving a narcissist.
Helping Humanity
The human condition reflects the empath-narcissist relationship. Humanity has always been constrained and controlled by a less evolved energy force. For humanity and its empathic individuals, the challenge is sovereignty.
In order to help humanity free itself, empaths must know what enslavement is like. Thanks to these dysfunctional, abusive relationships built on captivity of self, we personally know how easy it is to become enslaved and how impossible it can seem to free ourselves. Thanks to narcissists, empaths deeply understand humanity's plight. With this deep, experiential understanding, we develop the power to penetrate through the relationship of tyranny-enslavement. Then we can all move on to less threatening realms.
The sensitive, soft-spoken spirits must free themselves from the barbarous buffoon baboons.
The humans must escape by their own volition. The empaths will show them the way, in consciousness. When we do it ourselves, we blaze the trail, we strengthen the potential for others. This is a huge part of taking our power back and reclaiming our sovereignty. The catch is that we must do it for ourselves. No one can do it for us.
We have to show the Universe that we value ourselves enough to save ourselves. Show the Universe that you value yourself and it will show you just how much, greatly magnified. It will shower your own love upon you, even while you're dumbfounded at all the good things happening to you. The Universe helps those who help themselves. You start the loop rolling by loving yourself enough to not be a willing slave to abuse.
Discernment
Every person has a voice that matters. We have a right to our own opinion. When we speak our voice and others stomp on us like a used cigarette, it's a pretty clear indication that we don't want those people in our lives. People who have their own interest at heart can't help but show themselves to us. It's up to us to see it and care about ourselves enough to separate the weeds from the garden of our lives. The garden can't grow when it's overrun by weeds.
The Personal Prison
To strengthen your personal power, remove all sources of guilt and shame from your life, even if it makes you feel guilty and ashamed to do so. Guilt and shame are traps that others use to control us. Break the chains of others' psychic domination over you.
Guilt plays on compassion. Empaths are very compassionate. Your compassion is your cage when it’s used to make you feel guilty. Be compassionate, but not at the expense of yourself.
Instinctively, empaths want to help people, even when its in direct conflict with helping ourselves. Remember that the most leverage we each have as individuals to help the collective consciousness, is to help ourselves. Having the wisdom to discern your own path and the strength to stay on it is the most powerful way to help humanity.
Don't blame the narcissists. They're as unconscious as a passed-out drunk. Just save yourself and don't feel bad about it. Remember that they don't feel like you do. Don't project the way you would feel onto them. Don't project the feelings of a high-level consciousness onto a buffoon baboon.
Hope this Helps.
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